Tuesday, May 23, 2006

Apartments, Bikes and Grades

Happy days are here again...after nearly one year of living separately, Matt and I have decided to move back in together. It's been a very rough year for both of us in terms of emotional, psychological and fiscal well-being, but we both feel reasonably ready to take this important step.

Despite (or perhaps even because of?) everything that we've been through, Matt and I love each other very much and remain dedicated to the survival and ultimate renewal of our marriage...well, I shouldn't speak for Matt, but I'm guessing he'd agree with me on this (feel free to shoot me down, honey -- I'm sure you're itching to do so anyway ;-P). And then of course there's the plain fact that schlepping back and forth between our respective apartments in Capitol Hill is getting freakin' old!

Anyway, we've picked out a new two-bedroom apartment about a block and a half away from where Matt is currently living -- an excellent location for two downtown commuters without a car, as several major bus lines run close by and there are not one but two grocery stores are within two blocks -- more motivation for me to get my mad-culinary-demon self in the kitchen and rattle some pots and pans, muah-ah-ahhhh! Spicy lasagne for everyone!

The proximity of beautiful Cheesman Park is also a big plus...Matt and I like to go there to walk, talk, look at babies and dogs and roll around on the grass (last night we sprawled out smack-dab in the middle of the park and watched a thunderstorm roll in with accompanying sights, sounds and smells...lovely. And yes, we got back inside before getting too drenched and/or struck by lightning). The apartment building is about average for the area, the apartment itself is quite large and *gasp!* even has a dishwasher, so I think Matt and I will be quite happy there while having enough space to be able to have some alone-time when necessary. All in all it's a pretty copascetic arrangement, which naturally is making us nervous...Matt's had issues with his management company before and we're both leery of being jerked around by these people, but thus far negotiations seem to be progressing in a more orless satisfactory manner. We haven't signed a lease yet but have an appointment to do so at the end of this week; we plan to make the move on Saturday June 10th (and will of course accept any and all offers of strong backs to help us out,*ahem*). Keep your fingers crossed for us, folks!

In other news, Matt and I saved our income tax refund this year and have finally replaced our bikes (which as you may remember were stolen out of our former building [along withall of our neighbors' bikes] about a year and a half ago). We put the bikes to immediate use by pedalling away from the shop and heading out for some breakfast and errands, and this past Sunday saw a long ride of between 12 and 15 miles along the Platte River bike path. We emerged dehydrated, saddle sore and exhausted but otherwise glad that we were both able to make the ride without collapsing (although I nearly did so when we ran out of water -- I've since learned the hard way that not bringing enough water and relying upon the parks system to have the few available water fountains turned on is DUMB). We've mutually decided that these new bikes will be kept inside our new place...no sense tempting fate in Capitol Hill.

Final grades from Spring semester were released late last week...Matt did famously (straight A's, wooo!) and I did marginally (two Cs and a B, poo...), but we're both glad to have the semester behind us and the summer in front of us. It was a rough semester, especially for me, but I am already attempting to gear myself for better performance this Fall. And for some reason that I can't understand, I usually do better in Fall semester anyway...usually.

That's about all for now...here's hoping that some other Fosters will be updating their blogs soon, hint hint... ;-)

10 comments:

Tankfos said...

Thank you for filling us in on the Downtown Denver Fosters. I am super excited about you guys moving back in together. I wish I could be there to help you move. Only in spirit. I am looking forward to tasting some of the cooking that will come out of your new kitchen.

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Jeff said...

Sounds like a pretty sweet set up there with the new apartment and bikes. We can't wait to come down and visit you this summer! Congrats on finishing another term of school. I just did myself, and pretty soon I'll have to be sucking it up and moving on to the next step myself. Good luck.

Dad said...

Wendi,
We are so happy you two will be moving back together. We know there are always rough spots in relationships but it is so important to try and work things out rather than just throw your hands up and walk away. (many times that is the solution these days) We respect and admire both of you for working on this relationship. It is the most important one you can have. We continue to pray for your happiness and success as a couple. We love you both very, very much and want you both to be happy.

Hang in there with school. It is a long road but worth it in the end.

Margaret, Meg and I will be in Seattle on the 10th but if it slips to the 16th, we are there.

Thanks for the help getting to the airport this Friday and we will see you when we pick the van up on Monday.

Love,
Mickey

Mark said...

Congrats on the happy re-merger! It will work out wonderfully, I'm sure.

Count me in for a pick-up and a strong, hairy back on Saturday the 10th. What time?

Wendi said...

Thanks to everyone for your encouraging comments...I consider it an honor to have married into a family of such stand-up (and highly intelligent) people. You all simply rock. :-D

Mark, a million thanks for the offer of help...this move will be arduous as we're moving two apartments into one -- but then moving stinks no matter which way you slice it.

However, after some previous moving fiascos *shooting a pointed look at my darling husband* we're planning to have things far better organized, and we'll also rent a truck big enough to hold everything in (hopefully) one trip. My current building has an elevator, but Matt's current apartment or our future abode have stairs (fortunately, only one flight of them). Dollies and handtrucks will be available to save everyone's backs. Tentatively Matt and I have enlisted the help of two other strong fellas, but we're scouting around for more.

I would say let's shoot for early to mid-morning, with the option of heading out for a hearty and artery-clogging breakfast beforehand? And to return the favor, Matt and I will offer our serives to assist with the load-up of your move to WY. Sound doable?

Angie said...

Wendi--
Congrats on the move! (I'm so happy you'll be able to live together again.) And congrats on being done with the semester. I hope you guys have a great summer--you deserve it! Sorry we live so far away and can't be very helpful with the move from here, but we look forward to seeing the new pad when we get there in July!

Love,
Angie

Wendi said...

Thanks, Angie...Matt and I are looking very forward to seeing your branch of Clan Foster this summer, too...a splendid time is sure to be had by all! :-)

Danalin said...

Yea! I am so happy for the two of you! Sorry for the very delayed response; I've been in quite the 'bubble' lately. But you both have been in our thoughts and prayers and we are thrilled for this new step for the two of you. We'll be seeing you in just a month and a half. The little man will be huge by then, I'm sure, but will still have cute little toes for you to nibble on. :)

Tyler said...

Wendi,

We are so excited by your news. I echo my wife's comments. Sorry we are taking away some of your help on the 10th. It is probably for the best though, Mickey would probably end up throwing out his back or something.

I hope we can visit your pad this summer.

Wendi said...

Many thanks, Ty and Dana -- the baby Max toes are sounding almost as appealing to me as the roasted ear of sweet corn (yum!) I had yesterday while visiting the People's Fair. I promise that Max's toes will grow back immediately after I nibble upon them. :-)

As for the move, no worries -- so far we have four strong men and three pickup trucks (plus the U-Haul) to make our move, and (more importantly) myself to supervise them. It'll all tick away like a precision-tuned Swiss watch.

Good one, eh? ;-P

Take care of each other, and I hope that everyone has a great time in Seattle. And yes, there should absolutely be some kind of get-together at the new digs while everyone is in town. You never know...there might even be pie. :-)